Affirming Ministry

Opening Hearts: The United Church Affirming Process


The Third Annual Pride Worship Service is being celebrated on Sunday morning. Please consider joining our Affirming committee as they are participating in the service being presented by Affirming Network of Calgary.


On Monday, Feb. 3, 2020 members from St. David's joined with Jennifer McTavish, chair of the Affirming Committee, at City Hall where they were joined by a host of like-minded folk from Affirming Congregations across the city as they joined the Council debate to consider the banning of Conversion Therapy. The Herald announced this morning, Feb. 4, 2020 that in fact the Ban was passed and Calgary will be joining with other cities across the country in the elimination of this very controversial practice. 

The Herald article's dateline was "Crowd cheers as council unanimouly passes ban on conversion therapy. See picture below. 


It's time for "Under the Rainbow" gathering in Robertson Hall. Join Jennifer and friends on Wednesday evening at 7 p.m.


It's time for "Under the Rainbow" gathering in Robertson Hall. Join Jennifer and friends on Wednesday evening at 7 p.m. Jennifer had a busy summer and early fall with the Affirm United Conference in July and the Pride parade in September. 

JUNE 2019

Plans are well under way for the upcoming Affirm United Conference being held in Calgary this summer. Dates are July 26-28, 2019. 

MAY 2019

We will see you on Wednesday night at the social gathering and support for LGBTQ2S+ allies, at 7:00 P.M. May 15, 2019. As well, because the Affirm United Conference is being held in Calgary this year, July 26-28, 2019, participants will be requiring accommodation during their stay. If you can host someone, let Jennifer McTavish know. 

APRIL 2019

Jennifer McTavish, chair of the Affirm Committee, has sent us a link to her blog.

April 17, 2019, Jennifer hosted "Under the Rainbow" at St. David's where a  professional make up artist offered demos and tips to apply make up. As well, Jennifer will be attending the Affirm conference this summer that is taking place in Calgary. 

MARCH 2019

The Rainbow Elders were special guest on Sunday morning, March 17, 2019, and their spokesperson, Rocky Wallbaum, was our guest speaker. He was introduced by Affirm Committee Chair, Jennifer McTavish. 

March 20, 2019 there will be a Coffee Café at St. David's, hosted by the Affirm Committee. 


Our Affirming Ministry Chairperson, Jennifer Ferleyko, has created a blog to regularly update this active ministry and the work it is doing. Here is her link You also can find Jennifer's Blog more quickly if you click on it, on the left of the upper Affirming Ministry Page. 


It has been an exciting summer for our Affirming Ministry. Chairperson, Jennifer Ferleyko, attended the Affirm Conference in Toronto this summer and St. David's had a presence at the Pride Parade, September 2. Check out the home page of the United Church of Canada for Affirm United:

JUNE, 2018

Watch for an update. Our Affirming Ministry team has been hard at work over the year. Chairperson, Jennifer, has made a move so not only is busy with the move, but is preparing to attend the national conference in July and in September will be involved in the Pride Parade, September 2, beginning at 11:00 a.m.

"The signature Calgary Pride Parade is one of the most colourful celebrations of the year! This family friendly parade sees upwards of 60,000 spectators as over 150 entries from community groups, corporations, politicians, churches and public services roll through the heart of downtown, and celebrates the tremendous diversity of Calgary’s community."

SEPTEMBER 28, 2017

Chairperson of the Affirming Ministy, Jennifer Ferleyko, gave an update of activities for this vital ministry. Jennifer attended the July conference in Ontario and celebrated the sharing of programming across Canada. Lots of information available and at the Toronto Pride parade, she worked at a booth with 12 other Affirm Congregations. Chair of the Council mentioned that members of SDUC walked in the Calgary parade with the brand new banner, along with a number of other Affirm churches. Impacting. “Pretty empowering.” 


APRIL 30, 2017

  • On Sunday we were pleased to welcome performers from Hillhurst United's Coming Out In Faith event. We had 3 special guests who shared their personal stories about how faith has intersected with their sexuality and gender identity. Special music was offered by Dean Lauderdale. Pam Rocker from Hillhurst United introduced our guests.
  • Seeds for Meditation Sunday morning were:  
  • "This is our big chance to see what people think of us. The real us. We have to show 'em there's nothing to be afraid of. If we don't get over our fears, they never will." (Lisa Harrison, Monster High)
  • "Our uniqueness, our individuality and our life experience mold us into fascinating beings. I hope we can embrace that. I pray we may all challenge ourselves to delve into the deepest resources of our hearts to cultivate an atmosphere of understanding, acceptance, tolerance and compassion. We are all in this life together." (Linda Thompson)

Have you ever wondered what it would be like...                                              

  to be born into a body, whose gender you can’t identify with? be rejected by your family because of your sexual orientation? experience racism? be excluded because of poverty? live life as a person with physical or mental challenges?  

In the fall of 2015,  we launched the Affirming process at St. David's. This was the start of a year of exciting and thought provoking events meant to challenge us by wrestling with and expanding our knowledge, understanding and acceptance of a diversity of human experiences with the goal of becoming more loving.  

Since 1992 the United Church has joined with Affirm United to engage a formal process of education, awareness, support and justice-making, towards becoming “a worshipping, pastoral and prophetic community celebrating God’s call to liberation. It declares that all people are created in God’s image and are unconditionally loved by God.”  

“The Affirming Ministry Program acknowledges the hurt and injustice the church has caused to many social groups—not just to LGBT people but also to First Nations and Aboriginal people, in our racism and fear of those who are different from the [majority], and through our silencing or exclusion of people because of their class and economic background, their age, ability, culture, gender, or ethnicity, or their physical or mental health.”  

On May 29, 2016 our congregation voted to apply to Affirm-United and become an Affirming congregation. The motion was approved by 92% with 145 members casting a vote. We hope there will be future opportunities for continued dicussion and times to celebrate the value of inclusiveness that exists at St. David's. 

Congratulatory messages regarding our decision were received from Hillhurst United, Lakeview United, Red Deer Lake United and St. Thomas United.